With all the news coming out on ET and the changes they anticipate they need to make it has been a long week. A lot of emotions have happened here in our house. Unsure of what to do, we have talked to our caseworker twice- she has been GREAT!!
We have decided to wait it out! ET was our country of choice from the beginning, we did not even research any other country. Our children are there and it make take 1 year or 3 to get them home, but we are going to wait. I imagine over the next year or so I am going to have a range of emotions but I know this is the right decision for us. The only other piece we would consider down the road will be to increase the age range or WH children. We will see on that and keep those options open. But for now we wait- oh yeah by the way still have not received our official wait document for our dossier- so we are still not waiting!!
I know there are a lot of folks like us out there in limbo...go with your heart- wherever it takes you is the right place!
Being limbo is pretty much where we all are this week. I love hearing that you are in it for the long haul!
ReplyDeleteIt's great that you've decided to stick it out. I think just making a decision lifts a weight and allows you to move on. Once we decided the direction we're going to move in, I felt immensely better. Who knows if it's the right decision, but for now I can at least make it through the day.
ReplyDeleteThanks so much for your kind words! I remember how difficult the wait was for baby #1... hang in there as you wait for your little one to come home! Knowing that you are following your heart will sustain you on this journey...feeling a peace about your decision is priceless.
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